It has come to my attention that some teenage girls are so caught up in looking good, increasing their social status and attracting boys that they put their own welfare at risk.
How do I know this?
Because I work with teenagers and cannot believe the kind of dresses that theses kids wear when they go out to parties and clubs.
This sad fact really started to hit home when, a few weeks back at work, I noticed a 14 year old kid wearing something that would look much more appropriate on a Bond girl.
I have never been blessed with children of my own.
But as someone who has a teenaged niece I pray to God that she does not flaunt herself like some of the young girls that I work with.
Because-sooner or later-these young ladies are going to find themselves crossing paths with the less desirable members of society. Add into the equation that maybe one of these young girls has been left alone by a love struck friend whom has deserted them, and the potential for harassment and physical and sexual assault magnifies exponentially.
It also amazes me that some teenage girls wear barely any clothing during the winter. Thus it not only puts them at risk of being noticed by a sex offender; it also increases their chances of falling ill with a common cold-or perhaps something much worse.
So it begs the question: What kind of parents do these children have?
Are these people too self involved to police their own offspring's behaviour?
Are they single parents that let their children get away with anything because they cannot be bothered making the effort without their significant other backing them up?
Or do these people have substance abuse issues that prevent them from being good role models?
The worst thing that anybody can do is make an assumption about someone's parenting abilities without knowing the facts. Having never been a father myself, I am the last person to make any type of judgement.
Still, I wonder what said parent's reaction would be if they received a phone call from the hospital telling them that their child had just been assaulted?
Would these parents still be able to look themselves in the mirror knowing that their child is suffering because of a lesson that THEY refused to teach?
I know that if I was parent there is no way in Hell that I would allow my daughters to leave the house dressed like they were strippers.
Even if they yelled and screamed at me, I would rather take their abuse then see them be abused by some pathetic individual who treats women like whores.
Plus I would point out to my children that teenage girls flaunting their bodies is actually doing nothing to improve their chances of finding Mr. Right. This is because most guys who see girls dressed up with more than half of their anatomy showing will only view them as one night stands; whereas a young woman who is dressed more appropriately has a much greater chance of discovering a long term partner.
As someone who cares about the welfare of the kids that I work with, it concerns me to know that some of these young adults could be potentially ruining their lives in the name of fashion, love and status.
Here's hoping that all the teenage girls of the world heed the warning of this article and dress to impress the right person instead of the wrong one.
Hospital me Khatoon ky sath Zyadthi by TheExpressNews
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/8507837
How do I know this?
Because I work with teenagers and cannot believe the kind of dresses that theses kids wear when they go out to parties and clubs.
This sad fact really started to hit home when, a few weeks back at work, I noticed a 14 year old kid wearing something that would look much more appropriate on a Bond girl.
I have never been blessed with children of my own.
But as someone who has a teenaged niece I pray to God that she does not flaunt herself like some of the young girls that I work with.
Because-sooner or later-these young ladies are going to find themselves crossing paths with the less desirable members of society. Add into the equation that maybe one of these young girls has been left alone by a love struck friend whom has deserted them, and the potential for harassment and physical and sexual assault magnifies exponentially.
It also amazes me that some teenage girls wear barely any clothing during the winter. Thus it not only puts them at risk of being noticed by a sex offender; it also increases their chances of falling ill with a common cold-or perhaps something much worse.
So it begs the question: What kind of parents do these children have?
Are these people too self involved to police their own offspring's behaviour?
Are they single parents that let their children get away with anything because they cannot be bothered making the effort without their significant other backing them up?
Or do these people have substance abuse issues that prevent them from being good role models?
The worst thing that anybody can do is make an assumption about someone's parenting abilities without knowing the facts. Having never been a father myself, I am the last person to make any type of judgement.
Still, I wonder what said parent's reaction would be if they received a phone call from the hospital telling them that their child had just been assaulted?
Would these parents still be able to look themselves in the mirror knowing that their child is suffering because of a lesson that THEY refused to teach?
I know that if I was parent there is no way in Hell that I would allow my daughters to leave the house dressed like they were strippers.
Even if they yelled and screamed at me, I would rather take their abuse then see them be abused by some pathetic individual who treats women like whores.
Plus I would point out to my children that teenage girls flaunting their bodies is actually doing nothing to improve their chances of finding Mr. Right. This is because most guys who see girls dressed up with more than half of their anatomy showing will only view them as one night stands; whereas a young woman who is dressed more appropriately has a much greater chance of discovering a long term partner.
As someone who cares about the welfare of the kids that I work with, it concerns me to know that some of these young adults could be potentially ruining their lives in the name of fashion, love and status.
Here's hoping that all the teenage girls of the world heed the warning of this article and dress to impress the right person instead of the wrong one.
Hospital me Khatoon ky sath Zyadthi by TheExpressNews
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/8507837
