Disaster after dating disaster, you just can't seem to find the right guy. Every guy you've met up until today has been a complete waste of time, and probably left you feeling extremely hurt and damaged. Worse yet, is the fact that lots of these guys have dumped you, or have stopped calling...and you don't know why.
But that is all about to change, because I am going to give you an insight into a man's mind that will show you exactly WHY you are only attracting the WRONG types of guys. You see, there are certain things that women do which determine which type of man they can have; and clearly, if you are attracting the wrong kind of guy, you are not sending off the signals that would attract the RIGHT guy.
That's why I want you to carefully look over these 25 tips and see if you can identify with them, because chances are, you're doing more than one of these things which is causing you to attract the wrong type of guy:
#1. You don't draw the boundaries - If a man wants to get intimate with you, he can. If he wants to disrespect you or make fun of you, he can. If he wants to say he'll call but never does, he can. He walks all over you, because he can, and because you let him. Draw the boundaries, otherwise you'll find that men will do WHATEVER they want to, regardless of how you feel about it.
#2. You tell them not to like you, because you don't like yourself - You give off the vibe that you really hate yourself, and that you don't value yourself. You downsize yourself and show your insecurities in your self-sabotaging comments and jokes that you make about yourself when you talk to men. This tells them that you are a low quality woman, and thus they treat you like one.
#3. You jump into bed too early - You try to snag him by jumping into bed with him, but that only backfires when you realize that he only wanted a one night stand. NEVER become intimate with a man early on, if he is TRULY into you, he won't make that a requirement, and will not rush into intimacy with you.
#4. You don't think you can accomplish your goals without a man - You want a house, and kids, and a stable life...and you sit there telling men how you need to settle down with a guy just to get these things. This comes across as being utterly needy and even creepy at times; and tells him that you're not really willing to give yourself anything on your own, and instead expect a man to give you the life you desire.
#5. You expect commitment instantly- You just met the guy, and already you are strangling him with commitment talks and expectations. The quickest way to scare a man off is by making him feel as though you are trying to trap him; which talking about commitment does! If a man wants to commit, he doesn't want to be told to do it; BUT wants to CHOOSE it, which you don't allow him to do when you come on too strong in the beginning.
#6. You're extremely bossy- You talk about all the things he has to do for you, and get for you, and he thinks you're just a spoiled brat who needs to grow up. He's never going to let you boss him around or tell him what to do, and will probably throw that in your face just to teach you a lesson.
#7. You don't give him space - A man will become a complete jerk when you deprive him of space and when you deprive him of his "personal" time alone and away from you. Men will literally ARGUE and cause a huge fight just to have a valid reason to leave you, because otherwise, they'd never be able to get some time alone.
#8. You're too touchy - He says one small thing and it offsets you so much that you start crying, or argue for 3 hours about it, and you just can't drop anything or let anything go. He doesn't want to feel like he's walking on egg shells around you, so instead he will just dump you on the sidelines and find someone who isn't so touchy.
#9. You let him take you for granted- You give him so much so early on, without him having to EARN it or WORK for it, that he starts to take you for granted. His ego is inflated because he is getting you to do everything for him, without working for it...thus he literally doesn't appreciate you, and you mean nothing to him...because it's just YOU who is chasing him. He'll treat you like crap as a result.
#10. You let men determine your mood - Your mood depends entirely on what other men think, and whether or not they are attracted etc... Thus, if you are rejected or if he doesn't call you...you'll instantly feel down. Likewise, if he talks to you for a while, or if he says he likes you...your mood elevates.
Men notice this behavior and may play around with you just to get a reaction...which in turn means they are not genuine but instead are entertaining themselves at the cost of your pain.
A girl traps a boy with a wrong call by arynews
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/6066979
But that is all about to change, because I am going to give you an insight into a man's mind that will show you exactly WHY you are only attracting the WRONG types of guys. You see, there are certain things that women do which determine which type of man they can have; and clearly, if you are attracting the wrong kind of guy, you are not sending off the signals that would attract the RIGHT guy.
That's why I want you to carefully look over these 25 tips and see if you can identify with them, because chances are, you're doing more than one of these things which is causing you to attract the wrong type of guy:
#1. You don't draw the boundaries - If a man wants to get intimate with you, he can. If he wants to disrespect you or make fun of you, he can. If he wants to say he'll call but never does, he can. He walks all over you, because he can, and because you let him. Draw the boundaries, otherwise you'll find that men will do WHATEVER they want to, regardless of how you feel about it.
#2. You tell them not to like you, because you don't like yourself - You give off the vibe that you really hate yourself, and that you don't value yourself. You downsize yourself and show your insecurities in your self-sabotaging comments and jokes that you make about yourself when you talk to men. This tells them that you are a low quality woman, and thus they treat you like one.
#3. You jump into bed too early - You try to snag him by jumping into bed with him, but that only backfires when you realize that he only wanted a one night stand. NEVER become intimate with a man early on, if he is TRULY into you, he won't make that a requirement, and will not rush into intimacy with you.
#4. You don't think you can accomplish your goals without a man - You want a house, and kids, and a stable life...and you sit there telling men how you need to settle down with a guy just to get these things. This comes across as being utterly needy and even creepy at times; and tells him that you're not really willing to give yourself anything on your own, and instead expect a man to give you the life you desire.
#5. You expect commitment instantly- You just met the guy, and already you are strangling him with commitment talks and expectations. The quickest way to scare a man off is by making him feel as though you are trying to trap him; which talking about commitment does! If a man wants to commit, he doesn't want to be told to do it; BUT wants to CHOOSE it, which you don't allow him to do when you come on too strong in the beginning.
#6. You're extremely bossy- You talk about all the things he has to do for you, and get for you, and he thinks you're just a spoiled brat who needs to grow up. He's never going to let you boss him around or tell him what to do, and will probably throw that in your face just to teach you a lesson.
#7. You don't give him space - A man will become a complete jerk when you deprive him of space and when you deprive him of his "personal" time alone and away from you. Men will literally ARGUE and cause a huge fight just to have a valid reason to leave you, because otherwise, they'd never be able to get some time alone.
#8. You're too touchy - He says one small thing and it offsets you so much that you start crying, or argue for 3 hours about it, and you just can't drop anything or let anything go. He doesn't want to feel like he's walking on egg shells around you, so instead he will just dump you on the sidelines and find someone who isn't so touchy.
#9. You let him take you for granted- You give him so much so early on, without him having to EARN it or WORK for it, that he starts to take you for granted. His ego is inflated because he is getting you to do everything for him, without working for it...thus he literally doesn't appreciate you, and you mean nothing to him...because it's just YOU who is chasing him. He'll treat you like crap as a result.
#10. You let men determine your mood - Your mood depends entirely on what other men think, and whether or not they are attracted etc... Thus, if you are rejected or if he doesn't call you...you'll instantly feel down. Likewise, if he talks to you for a while, or if he says he likes you...your mood elevates.
Men notice this behavior and may play around with you just to get a reaction...which in turn means they are not genuine but instead are entertaining themselves at the cost of your pain.
A girl traps a boy with a wrong call by arynews
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/6066979
