After a breakup, almost instantly we feel the pain from the fresh wounds and we hardly see straight because our whole world has relatively been turned upside down. And undoubtedly we long to see our ex and wish that everything just went back to normal. At times, we unavoidably feel the urge to do desperate measures. I'm sure you've done unflattering things like chopping your hair off (calling all ladies, does this ring a bell?), but what I am ultimately interested in is the selfie that says "I want you back!"
This specific kind of selfie does exist and can be distributed in variety of ways. I like to coin the term myself, and maybe you'll agree, it's the "get my ex back" selfie. It is where we fabulously do our makeup and hair post breakup, take a snap of our self and upload it in the hopes that a single picture might just make your ex come rushing back to you before he even consider the thought of "unfriending" and "unfollowing" you. But, that is not the only way that these selfies come in handy when getting your ex back.
With the revolution of technology, we have more options to choose from than just email things or IM. We are able to upload, share, tweet, link, Instagram or Snapchat-and the list could go on and on and on. Having so many virtual connections to choose from means your ex is at a much closer reach than they were (flashback the prehistoric times: dialing a number and verbally speak to someone, or show up in front of their door, may God forbid).
Today, it's so damn easy to send your ex at 2 am after the bars in town closes, "Whatcha doinnn?" So, I see no reason why we don't do the same with a little selfie department? I feel at ease with the thought that selfie is here to stay and because of that, as a collective, it is high time that we define the various kinds of selfie that falls under the "I want you back" category:
1. The Standard Selfie: When you take this selfie, picture the moment when you and your ex-boyfriend would lay around the bed together, with legs and feet entwined and the soft sheets askew from laughing, rolling around and whispering to each other's ears endless sweet nothings. For the heck of it, you might also want to consider taking a shot of yourself with this selfie lying on your bed with messy hair.
2. The Sobbing Selfie: I beg you please don't. Just don't. We all experience pain, the sadness and the hurt when the person we love leaves us, but part of the healing process and moving on is to do this without this selfie. It makes you not only stronger but also respectable in the end. While it's true that the logic might be with you at that very moment, you'll perhaps feel ashamed for how foolish you were in retrospection. My piece of advice: keep these kinds of artistic projects as soon as you think you're far enough from the breakup.
3. The Close-to-Naughty Selfie: Perhaps in these selfies your face may not be shown, but you're nearly naked (like your just covering some parts up) or clothed in a sexy dress. In this selfie, my logical nugget tells me that you're trying to get him back, you might as well go all the way - full blown. In reality, most likely they have seen all there is. Teasing him might not be the best options at this point.
4. The Neck-Down Selfie: That's the only polite term I could possibly think than call it the "X rated" selfie. You're so embarrassed with the poise in that selfie that you didn't even includ your face. For a second, we can all be real and admit to have this shot maybe once or twice (hundreds), but it is not every day that we use it to get our ex back. Is it worth it? Is it effective? For younger and tech-savvy people, this might do the trick.
What actually has been effective is not the late night texting or the selfie. I'm probably being incoherent if I say that. On any level of getting back with your ex, what has provided me with ideal and coveted results are distance, honesty and respect after a period of time and after both parties have actually grown back into the person who they really are even before they got in a relationship. So before you even make a premature decision and resort to doing scandalous mirror photos, give these suggestions a shot. Probably you will earn the respect that you deserve.
To help people recreate the kind of relationship that they have always imagined is the vision of Subliminal Attraction Expert Michael Griswold. He presents this article to pursuit to help men and women get their ex back permanently. Michael is not only a speaker but also an author of two ex-back systems, the M3 System and the Infatuate Your Ex program. If you need to know more about the ex-back systems or get in touch with Michael Griswold himself, go to http://www.infatuateyourex.com.
Team Pakistan Suffering From Selfie Fever by arynews
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/8725112
This specific kind of selfie does exist and can be distributed in variety of ways. I like to coin the term myself, and maybe you'll agree, it's the "get my ex back" selfie. It is where we fabulously do our makeup and hair post breakup, take a snap of our self and upload it in the hopes that a single picture might just make your ex come rushing back to you before he even consider the thought of "unfriending" and "unfollowing" you. But, that is not the only way that these selfies come in handy when getting your ex back.
With the revolution of technology, we have more options to choose from than just email things or IM. We are able to upload, share, tweet, link, Instagram or Snapchat-and the list could go on and on and on. Having so many virtual connections to choose from means your ex is at a much closer reach than they were (flashback the prehistoric times: dialing a number and verbally speak to someone, or show up in front of their door, may God forbid).
Today, it's so damn easy to send your ex at 2 am after the bars in town closes, "Whatcha doinnn?" So, I see no reason why we don't do the same with a little selfie department? I feel at ease with the thought that selfie is here to stay and because of that, as a collective, it is high time that we define the various kinds of selfie that falls under the "I want you back" category:
1. The Standard Selfie: When you take this selfie, picture the moment when you and your ex-boyfriend would lay around the bed together, with legs and feet entwined and the soft sheets askew from laughing, rolling around and whispering to each other's ears endless sweet nothings. For the heck of it, you might also want to consider taking a shot of yourself with this selfie lying on your bed with messy hair.
2. The Sobbing Selfie: I beg you please don't. Just don't. We all experience pain, the sadness and the hurt when the person we love leaves us, but part of the healing process and moving on is to do this without this selfie. It makes you not only stronger but also respectable in the end. While it's true that the logic might be with you at that very moment, you'll perhaps feel ashamed for how foolish you were in retrospection. My piece of advice: keep these kinds of artistic projects as soon as you think you're far enough from the breakup.
3. The Close-to-Naughty Selfie: Perhaps in these selfies your face may not be shown, but you're nearly naked (like your just covering some parts up) or clothed in a sexy dress. In this selfie, my logical nugget tells me that you're trying to get him back, you might as well go all the way - full blown. In reality, most likely they have seen all there is. Teasing him might not be the best options at this point.
4. The Neck-Down Selfie: That's the only polite term I could possibly think than call it the "X rated" selfie. You're so embarrassed with the poise in that selfie that you didn't even includ your face. For a second, we can all be real and admit to have this shot maybe once or twice (hundreds), but it is not every day that we use it to get our ex back. Is it worth it? Is it effective? For younger and tech-savvy people, this might do the trick.
What actually has been effective is not the late night texting or the selfie. I'm probably being incoherent if I say that. On any level of getting back with your ex, what has provided me with ideal and coveted results are distance, honesty and respect after a period of time and after both parties have actually grown back into the person who they really are even before they got in a relationship. So before you even make a premature decision and resort to doing scandalous mirror photos, give these suggestions a shot. Probably you will earn the respect that you deserve.
To help people recreate the kind of relationship that they have always imagined is the vision of Subliminal Attraction Expert Michael Griswold. He presents this article to pursuit to help men and women get their ex back permanently. Michael is not only a speaker but also an author of two ex-back systems, the M3 System and the Infatuate Your Ex program. If you need to know more about the ex-back systems or get in touch with Michael Griswold himself, go to http://www.infatuateyourex.com.
Team Pakistan Suffering From Selfie Fever by arynews
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/8725112
